Love Birds!

We had the pleasure on June 14th of hosting an amazing wedding. Kathy Dusart from Colfax (530) 637-4141 http://www.dovesofwhite.com/ was hired to release 20 beautiful white doves from the garden area when the couple recessed after ceremony. The experience was simply amazing! The doves were released from a basket and flocked behind the couple. The flock then flowed into the air and circled twice then disappeared.
According to Kathy's website:
White Dove Releases are an ancient tradition symbolizing Love & Devotion, Peace & Unity. These Birds mate for life and when released Divine their way homeward and to their nest. These birds are specially bred for their pure white color and natural homing instinct. They are carefully conditioned for your special day to return home safely.

I also wanted to share some favorite photos of the day provided by: Rebecca from Ford Family Photography http://www.fordfamilyphotography.com/

Happy Planning!

Kelly

Anthropology!

What an exciting wedding on Saturday May 30th. This Monte Verde Inn Bride really showed off her style, Anthropology. The Bride’s choices of colors & styles truly shined in the garden on Saturday. The details of this event were well thought out down to the 1940’s style wedding cake topper. The bridesmaids dresses were even purchaced from a girl's favorite store, Anthropology. Tralee’s inspiration and love for the antique look came together for her wedding.

Her table settings were accented by Victorian Lilac Organza table cloths and Lilac Lamour napkins. The cute “birds in nest” favor was a unique touch that showed off the flowers and the rented table cloths. Attached to the Monte Verde Inn designed centerpiece was a small branch widdled to hold a table number. The centerpiece was a garden design in our “pottery urn”. It was so unique; the bride gave us the numbers and branches to use in other events!

Tralee also brought with her escort cards that were displayed attractively on top of flats of landscape cover that brought the whole garden theme together.

Thanks to Tralee & Mike! I hope you are having fun in Hawaii on your honeymoon

Happy Planning

Kelly

May 16 - Wedding

As promised I will feature weddings throughout the season highlighting the event. On Saturday May 16, we had a spectacular couple and a fun wedding. There was about 100 people for a delicious buffet dinner. The guests enjoyed the broiled PEI muscles with garlic, breadcrumbs and Italian parsley as one of their appetizers. Guests raved about the slow roasted & smoked prime rib that was carved by the chef along with other various terrific buffet items.

The couple's colors was centered on their flower choices, pink aqua roses along with green spider mums. These colors were certainly showed off as the topper of their mocha fondant wedding cake as well as their favors.

The guests were impressed by the couple's choice of hiring the "Special Event" nannies to play games with the children. This allowed the adults to have a good time while their children were looked after.

The guests had fun playing in the "photobooth" provided by SJDJ's services. The guests were able to put on fun hats and wigs and took photos in the booth. The photobooth created a four picture favor for them to take home, and a duplicate to put in the guestbook.

What a wonderful day! Thanks so much to Mike & Vicki!

Happy Planning

Kelly

Picture Perfect

Here at the Monte Verde Inn, the places for pictures are endless. Our beautiful grounds, structural textures and filtered light, are all a photographer’s dream. After your wedding is over, your wedding photos will still be there reminding you of your beautiful day. That said it is imperative that you and your photographer go over details before the event.

Being Ready:
It is imperative that you be ready for your photographer. It will cost you money and reception time if you are not ready. Putting the photographer behind schedule will not allow for all the photo opportunities you wanted. More importantly, you will be stressed and hurried, which will make for poor photographs. You should make an itinerary for people that need to be here for pictures before the ceremony. You should let them know what time they need to be here and when they need to be ready. You can give these people their times during the rehearsal lunch/dinner. Also do your best to remind the wedding party of their duties; work with your photographer by listening, being ready and doing their best to be happy.

Timelines:
Ahead of time you really need to sit down with your photographer and make a “laundry” list of all the pictures you want of individual and family groups before ceremony and after. Be sure to write down the names of the picture participants because looking for the “bride’s family” usually doesn’t work. Often times I’ll have an announcement made for “bride’s family” and all the second and third cousins come out of the woodwork. We usually find that taking the bride & groom, wedding party and family out front of the Inn coordinates best. It allows you not to get sidetrack by the other guests, and can get the formal photographs behind you so you can move on to your party. Not to worry, we do assign a staff member to get you and your family something to drink and some of the appetizers. In addition, go over with your photographer the top 3 places on the grounds that you really want pictures of.

Coordinating with your photographer:
As with all your vendors, I do coordinate with them regarding the timeline of the event. Remember that we give about 45 minutes to an hour after ceremony for most of the formal photographs. It is a great opportunity for the majority of photographs to be taken. I’ve noticed things flow more smoothly when family pictures first, then wedding party, and last romantics (just bride & groom). During your photography session I check in with your photographer to see if you are on schedule or need help finding people for pictures. When it is time for dinner, try to enjoy your wonderful wedding dinner. It is tempting to go off for more pictures, but if we plan and are ready for photo sessions, getting up from dinner won’t be necessary.

Last but not least, it is important to build a rapport with your photographer. You should be comfortable and at ease with them. Your photos will be fabulous if you do. In addition, it is important to drink lots of water and remember that you have professionals working for you. Let go and have fun with your photographer it will certainly show in your photos!

Happy Planning!
Kelly

Music To My Ears

Music is an important part of any wedding. As a wedding coordinator, it is also important to help facilitate and coordinate with your music provider. Regardless of the type of music provider i.e., DJ or band, coordinating with your vendors is an important part of the success of your wedding.

After working hundreds of weddings with the professional services of SJ's, I have found that they come prepared knowing the details of each event. These details include:

• Start times of the event (they should arrive and are set up with music playing before your guests arrive)
• Wedding Ceremony Music i.e., song for honored women, song for bridesmaids, song for bride and the recessional song
• Ceremony Instructions of readers, vocalists and/or any unique traditions
• Wedding Party & Newlywed Introductions
• Type of dinner service (making the appropriate announcements of offer your guest dinner instructions
• Champagne Toast (who will speak and is there an open mic)
• Cake Cutting/Bouquet/Garter Tosses Songs
• Spotlight Dances (1st dance, father & daughter, mother & son, honeymoon dance)
• Special Announcements
• Open Dancing (songs to play and songs NOT to play)
• Make sure to go over all these aspects with your music provider

There are many great DJ's, however we have seen our share of bad ones.....these are just a few stories:

• DJ not playing the correct songs for ceremony
• DJ driving up at the ceremony start time with his equipment in the back of his truck. We had to wait 30 minutes for the wedding to start so he could set-up. When I asked him why he was late he said that the bride didn't pay for extra set-up time
• Mispronouncing names of brides, grooms and parents
• Equipment failure
• Makes inappropriate comments
• DJ decided to give his own toast to the bride (not cool)

Your music provider should go over all of the listed items above in order to be well prepared for your wedding. It is important to let them know you do have a wedding coordinator for the event and will be present to coordinate with them about the sequence of events. We do have a certain sequence of events that works really well for our facility and encourage the music provider to contact us to go over the plan. This should be noted when coordinating with your music professional.

If you haven't picked your music professional check out

Joe Kalamaras http://www.sjsdiscjockey.com/

Happy Planning

Kelly

SPRING HAS SPRUNG!

Just a small post to update everybody who has not had the opportunity to visit in the last month or two. Spring is here and mother nature has been working her magic on the trees and gardens.

The Plum trees that line the driveway are now full of leaves as are most of the fruit trees around the parking lot.

The gardens are getting full with Day Lillies, Roses and Jasmine.

The lawns are looking lush and green.

The vineyard is all prepped and ready for another growing season. With the vines waking up from their winter hibernation and showing their first green shoots this week.

In addition to Mother Nature we have been hard at work as well.

Constructing a new solid redwood arbor and fence to replace the old one in the bottom patio area.

And not as glamorous as the arbor but just as important we are just about done remodeling the three outdoor bathrooms.

Brand new plumbing fixtures, ceramic tile, lighting, paint and decor, have made a vast improvement to our outdoor facilities.

Happy Planning,

Kelly

Seating Arranging 101

Now that you have decided on assigned seating at your wedding, here is some helpful information to guide you through the process. Below are things to know about seating arrangements at the Monte Verde Inn:

• Our round tables seat 8-10 people. If you want to use our silver chargers (a decor plate that goes at each place setting), you can only put 8-9 people per table. If your guest count is over 160, you will need to seat 10 per table due space restrictions in the garden.
• Numbering tables is the easiest way to label your tables. The Monte Verde Inn already has pre-made framed table numbers for you to use (see picture of example above). If you do not like our framed numbers, you may provide your own. I have seen people name the tables in all different ways, places the couple has visited, wine varieties, classical composers, Disney characters, different trees…….If you do provide you own table identifiers, make sure that they don’t over power your centerpiece and the holder in which you use is wind proof. I have seen people use floral picks and have put the table names in the centerpiece……beware of flimsy paper and/or colors & styles that conflict with arrangement.
• Guests will need to know which table they are seated at so they don’t have to walk around every table to find their place. This is usually achieved by displaying a seating chart or escort cards (Escort card show the name/number of the table a guest is seated at) prominently at the entrance to the garden.
• Seating Charts can be anything like a typed sheet of paper in a frame listing tables with each person’s name below a table or you can have Kinko’s http://www.kinkos.com/ make your seating chart into a creative poster board where we can display it on an easel.
• Escort cards can be cute and fun, but beware if you have more than 100 people as the cards become too many to display. In addition, escort cards can get lost by a guest, so if you also need this to be a meal identifier, think about having those place cards at each place setting. If you decide on escort cards, think about a way to display them to keep them in place. Often times if cards are not secured on a board or weighted down somehow, the wind can carry them all over the garden.

Buffet Dinner: SEATING CHART

• When having a buffet dinner meal identifiers and place cards are not necessary. A seating chart nicely displayed at the guest book table is sufficient.

Plated Dinner: SEATING CART + MEAL IDENTIFIERS/PLACE CARDS

• As your rsvp’s come rolling in keep track of them the old fashion way. You can easily keep track of people and what they’ve ordered to eat by simply using two different color post-it notes i.e., blue=beef & yellow=fish with one name on each post-it note. Then take a piece of paper for each table, and start moving your people (post-it’s) around. When you final count is due, you can easily count blue (beef) and yellow (fish) meals. When you are ready to create your chart, just type it out according to your pieces of paper. NO MORE EXEL SHEETS!
• You will need a meal identifier for each guest. Once you’ve figured out who is coming and what they’re eating you need to have something in front of your guest letting our staff know which entrée they have chosen. You can simply do this by making place cards with a color ribbon, stamp, or different color ink, to indicate beef or fish. Remember that meal identifiers can do double duty with your favor. Example: a truffle box tied with different ribbon (stripes for beef & polka dots for fish) with your guest’s name attached.
• When bringing your meal identifiers to us, please divide them by tables clearly labeled, along with a labeled garden map (in your planning packet).



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